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		<description><![CDATA[. . . By Indrani Bagchi Posted on May 16, 2013 in THE TIMES OF INDIA. NEW DELHI: Regardless of the recent promise &#8230;<p><a href="http://tvaraj.com/2013/05/18/kudankulam-n-plant-safety-norms-gains-primacy-over-commissioning-deadline/">Continue reading &#187;</a></p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=tvaraj.com&#038;blog=32342279&#038;post=15175&#038;subd=tvaraj&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>By <strong><a href="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/toireporter/author-Indrani-Bagchi.cms" target="_blank" rel="author">Indrani Bagchi</a></strong></p>
<p>Posted on May 16, 2013 in <a href="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/" target="_blank">THE TIMES OF INDIA</a>.</p>
<div id="attachment_12853" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 486px"><img class=" wp-image-12853 " alt="Kudankulam Nuclear Plant" src="http://tvaraj.files.wordpress.com/2013/02/kudankulam-nuclear-plant.jpg?w=476&#038;h=356" width="476" height="356" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Kudankulam Nuclear Power Plant, Tirunelveli district, Tamilnadu, India</p></div>
<p>NEW DELHI: Regardless of the recent promise made by Prime Minister <a href="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/topic/Manmohan-Singh">Manmohan Singh</a> to his Russian counterpart <a href="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/topic/Vladimir-Putin">Vladimir Putin</a> on the sidelines of the BRICS summit in Durban about the early commissioning of the <a href="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/topic/Kudankulam-nuclear-power-plant">Kudankulam nuclear power plant</a> (KKNPP), the government has instructed the <a href="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/topic/Atomic-(musician)">Atomic</a> Energy Regulatory Board (AERB) that safety reviews of <a href="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/topic/KKNPP">KKNPP</a>should be run with a &#8220;fine-toothed comb&#8221; without being pressured by commissioning deadline. In fact, the government had recently invited the Operational Safety Review Team of the IAEA to do an independent safety assessment of other Indian reactors, particularly RAPS (in Rajasthan).</p>
<p>Last week, the Supreme Court cleared the power plant, paving the way for early commissioning. Originally, the plant was scheduled to be commissioned in 2007.</p>
<p>A whole new set of safety checks were conducted by the AERB after four valves that came from a Russian supplier were found to be &#8220;deficient&#8221;.</p>
<p>Stung by a series of popular protests about safety issues in Kudankulam, which has inspired protests by a large number of NGOs, the government is keen that no stone is left unturned. If this means the Russians are less than pleased, sources said, so be it. They added that some of the supplies from Russian companies have been found to be below par.</p>
<p>NPCIL has that the commissioning of KKNPP would now happen only in June, after another set of checks are carried out. The company said the physical progress of the plant was 99.6% complete.</p>
<p>This week a group of 60 leading scientists wrote a letter to the PM, and chief ministers of <a href="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/topic/Tamil-Nadu">Tamil Nadu</a> and Kerala asking for more stringent safety checks of the KKNPP. They have sought &#8220;renewed study&#8221; of safety issues by an independent panel of experts. The scientists — most of them serving in state-run institutions — have expressed doubts, &#8220;particularly with reference to possible sub-standard components&#8221; used in the plant.</p>
<p>These are not scientists advocating against nuclear energy, but concerned about safety issues. &#8220;These safety concerns are compounded by the fact that Russian authorities arrested Sergei Shutov, procurement director of Zio-Podolsk, on corruption charges for having sourced cheaper sub-standard steel for manufacturing components that were used in Russian nuclear installations in Bulgaria, <a href="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/topic/Iran">Iran</a>, China and India,&#8221; they wrote in the letter, The arrest of Shutov, they cited, led to several complaints of sub-standard components and follow-up investigations in both Bulgaria and China.</p>
<p>While the AERB gave an in-principle clearance for fuel loading of the plant in April, hopes that it would be commissioned by May were dashed after faulty valves made news. In an effort to quell the protests and spiralling negative perception about the power plant, the government has been on an information overdrive to educate and be transparent. This week, minister of state V Narayanasamy said, &#8220;All nuclear power projects undergo an elaborate in-depth safety review during the consenting stages, like siting, construction, commissioning, etc. After satisfactory review during project stage, AERB issues operating licence to an NPP for a period of up to five years.&#8221;</p>
<p>Last week, responding to a question in Parliament, government assured that components supplied to KKNPP are &#8220;tested in an integrated manner during commissioning to verify their performance in accordance to design performance criteria. Any shortfall noticed in performance is addressed/corrected as a part of the commissioning programme&#8221;.</p>
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<p>Re-posted from <a href="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/" target="_blank">THE TIMES OF INDIA</a></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[This a re-post of the original article posted on May 13, 2012  in The Life and Times of an Indian Homemaker. . Sharing &#8230;<p><a href="http://tvaraj.com/2013/05/17/an-email-from-an-indian-father-i-want-to-place-on-record-my-own-story-as-a-warning-to-anyone/">Continue reading &#187;</a></p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=tvaraj.com&#038;blog=32342279&#038;post=15147&#038;subd=tvaraj&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#000000;">This a re-post of the original article posted on <a title="10:20 pm" href="http://indianhomemaker.wordpress.com/2012/05/13/an-email-from-an-indian-father-i-want-to-place-on-record-my-own-story-as-a-warning-to-anyone/" rel="bookmark">May 13, 2012<br />
</a> in </span><span style="color:#ffffff;"><a href="http://indianhomemaker.wordpress.com/2012/05/13/an-email-from-an-indian-father-i-want-to-place-on-record-my-own-story-as-a-warning-to-anyone/" target="_blank"><strong>The Life and Times of an Indian</strong> <strong>Homemaker</strong></a>.</span></p>
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<p><em>Sharing an email from a father of an Indian daughter.</em></p>
<p>Dear Indian Homemaker,</p>
<p>After stumbling upon your blog accidentally, I read with interest your <a title="Are these the eight reasons you would give in support of Arranged Marriages? Posted on May 10, 2012" href="http://indianhomemaker.wordpress.com/2012/05/10/are-these-the-eight-reasons-you-would-give-in-support-of-arranged-marriages/" target="_blank">post created on May 10</a>, countering the so-called advantages of arranged marriage.</p>
<p><span style="font-style:inherit;line-height:1.625;">Although I have been happily married for nearly thirty years now, I have seen my own daughter suffer terribly in the arranged marriage system. While some might say that it is our culture, and love marriages are a Western import, I want to place on record my own story as a warning to anyone who might be considering the idea of simply going along with what everyone is saying, and isn’t following his or her own heart just because he doesn’t want ill to be spoken of his family in society. It is painful for me to write this, but I thought that I must use the internet forum to let people know how the system works.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-style:inherit;line-height:1.625;">I am retired with two daughters and a son.</span></p>
<p>It is my older daughter who has gone through hell on account of this horrible system of in-laws and dowry, and it is her that I want to write about.</p>
<p>About three years ago, my daughter graduated with her masters degree. She has always been extremely hard-working and being from a top college, she secured a well-paying job. Like any father, I was very proud of her and was happy that she was on-track to do very well in life without any help from me at all. The only thing left was to find a good groom for her, we thought, and after that she would be completely settled.</p>
<p>As my daughter had not selected any boy herself, the search began. We went all out. We published ads in papers, asked family friends, looked on matrimonial websites. Eventually, we found a boy, in the same city where my daughter worked a that time. He was from a good, well-settled family which owned a chain of businesses. He was well-spoken, confident and seemed quite modern in his ideas. We were forthright about my daughter being career-oriented and told the boy’s family categorically that she would not leave her job after marriage. We were assured that it was not a problem as the other daughter-in-law was also working and most of the housework was done by maids in any case.</p>
<p>My daughter, docile as always, simply went along and said okay to the proposal after only a few visits.</p>
<p>Within one month, the marriage was finalized and the ceremony was held in 2010.</p>
<p>At this point, we made the mistake of paying out a hefty dowry. It sounds very naive now, but I am being candid with you; I thought this might making things a little easier for our daughter . How could I have known what monstrous characters these people were hiding behind their smiles and laughter?</p>
<p>From the moment my daughter entered the house, these people began plotting to get more. At first, they were nice and gentle, but soon they began to show their true colours. It started with small hints, then moved on to broad hints, taunts, fights and finally, physical assaults.</p>
<p>I had no idea all this was going on. My daughter never told me; I used to call up every week and she told me that all was fine. Then one day, she said that she did not want me to call her anymore. She gave absolutely no reason for this request. It was completely out of character, and I was a little hurt, but reluctantly agreed. In Jun 2011, on her wedding anniversary, to my utter shock, the ceremony was held without us even being invited! By then, I had come to the conclusion that something was definitely very wrong.</p>
<p>I made a surprise visit to my son-in-law’s place. I told their family that I was there on business and had decided to pay them a visit. What I saw at their place made my blood boil over. My confident, beautiful daughter was treated like she was little more than a servant. When I entered, she was rudely told to get some tea, and the same people who had been so bubbly and smiley treated me as if I was a social inferior. I called out to my daughter, refused the tea, and simply stated that I was taking her out to lunch. They tried to protest, but I ignored them. It was only in the car that the whole story came out.</p>
<p>I have already told you the broad incidents, I won’t bore you with gory details. This fiend who called himself a husband not only hit my daughter, but he actually forced himself on her sexually. Imagine! My daughter, who I have NEVER hit till date. My daughter, who I brought up as the apple of my eye. How could this man have the gall to lay his dirty hands on her? How dare this rapist, this creature of filth, force her to bow to his perverted whims and fancies? The poor girl was so traumatized that she could not even cry! It was like talking to a shell, a dry husk of a person. It broke my heart to hear her speak like that.</p>
<p>I took her back to her marital home, told her to pack all essential documents and objects in a bag and come back with me immediately. The boy’s family created a scene of course, but at this time, I was so angry that I did not even look at them, let alone respond to their nonsense.</p>
<p>To cut a long story short, I got my daughter home and helped her file divorce papers and supplementary charges against the boy’s family. Although this terrible chapter is over, I am committed to personally ensuring that this man goes to jail, and isn’t just let off with a fine. I will make sure that he faces the consequences of his sins.</p>
<p>The points raised by the newspaper article (discussed in that post) seem so very shallow to me! It was written by someone who has no idea of ground reality and is floating in the dreams of a yesterday that does not exist.</p>
<p>Let me consider each point:</p>
<p style="padding-left:30px;">1. in a negotiated marriage, family support is a given.</p>
<p style="padding-left:60px;"><strong>What decent parent would not support their own child? </strong><strong>And if this parent does not want to support a daughter who had a love marriage, would he support her if her arranged marriage ran into trouble? What is the guarantee?</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left:30px;">2.  If the marriage demands the girl to stay with her in-laws, it is more likely that they will make her feel comfortable as they have already ‘approved’ of her.</p>
<p style="padding-left:60px;"><strong>As you can judge from my story, the ‘approval’ is only skin-deep. There is no guarantee that these in-laws will ‘approve’ afterwards too. And because enough time is not usually provided, who knows what the in-laws are actually like? Serial killers can also seem very pleasant under normal circumstances, but they will show their true colours only after a certain time.</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left:30px;">3. The process … involves understanding each othe<strong>r</strong>’s cultural interests apart from individual views and opinions about life in general.</p>
<p style="padding-left:60px;"><strong>Complete rubbish. The process only involves ticking off certain features, as if one was buying a car. This is not a feature of arranged marriage at all.</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left:30px;">4.  Unlike a love marriage where financial security of the groom is not always a priority, in an arranged marriage, it is imperative that the bride’s family ensure that their would-be son-in-law is career-oriented and has a steady flow of income.</p>
<p style="padding-left:60px;"><strong>If financial security is not a priority for the couple, then how is it important in any case? If it is a priority, then the couple will ensure it.</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left:30px;">5.  Each day is a surprise wherein the couple learn about the nitty gritty of the relationship and also take an effort to nurture it.</p>
<p style="padding-left:60px;"><strong>But are all surprises pleasant? Some things should not be a surprise. There are things that one must know well about one’s husband beforehand.</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left:30px;">6. Once the alliance is arranged, the boy and girl are officially allowed to meet and know more about each other</p>
<p style="padding-left:60px;"><strong>I do not understand what this means. Are the girl and boy not allowed to meet otherwise? If not, then how will they get married in any case?</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left:30px;">7. Ever heard of Swayamvar, an ancient Indian practice of choosing a husband from among a list of suitors?</p>
<p style="padding-left:60px;"><strong>Do all ‘Swayamvars’ turn out blissfully?</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left:30px;"><strong>8. </strong>Since both the parties are way too involved in finding the right match and also the actual activity of marriage, it takes the load off the bride-to-be and gives her time to get comfortable in her new surroundings.</p>
<p style="padding-left:60px;"><strong>I can only laugh at this, seeing how things have gone with my own daughter.</strong></p>
<p>I hope I’ve not made this overly long. I really wanted to share it, and I hope your find it useful.</p>
<p>Regards,</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[.  . By T.V. Antony Raj . Generally, Asians who return to their homeland after a sojourn abroad become the cynosure of &#8230;<p><a href="http://tvaraj.com/2013/05/16/ways-to-spot-a-desi-who-had-just-returned-from-usa/">Continue reading &#187;</a></p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=tvaraj.com&#038;blog=32342279&#038;post=15122&#038;subd=tvaraj&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://tvaraj.wordpress.com/" target="_blank"><img alt="Myself" src="http://tvaraj.files.wordpress.com/2012/02/myself.jpg?w=94&#038;h=189&#038;h=120" width="94" height="120" /> <span style="color:#ffffff;">. </span>By <strong><strong>T.V. Antony Raj</strong></strong></a></p>
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<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-15124" alt="An Indian returning at the airport" src="http://tvaraj.files.wordpress.com/2013/05/an-indian-returning-at-the-airport.jpg?w=529"   /><span style="font-style:inherit;line-height:1.625;">Generally, Asians who return to their homeland after a sojourn abroad become the cynosure of discussion among their envious folks. Their friends and relatives think that they purposely act funny to show off the habits they had picked up abroad.</span></p>
<p>By the way, I returned to India in January 2013 after a year-long holiday in the USA. In March 2007, long before I went to the USA, I came across some posts on the net with titles such as: &#8220;<em>What happen when Desi Returns from USA</em>&#8221; (sic), &#8220;<em>21 Funny ways to spot a US returned Indian!</em>&#8221; and many others, and had a good laugh.</p>
<p><span style="font-style:inherit;line-height:1.625;">Here are some ways to spot a Desi who has just returned from the USA:</span></p>
<p>1. Complains about &#8220;Jet Lag&#8221; even after two weeks.</p>
<p>2. Even after 4 months of arrival from abroad the stickers and labels of Airways are not removed from the luggage bags. Even for short visits roll out the cabin luggage bags, with Airways stickers still on them, on scraggy roads and uneven pavements.</p>
<p>3. Begins most conversations with &#8220;In US &#8230;&#8221; or &#8220;When I was in US &#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>4. Complains about heat, dust, air pollution and excess humidity every time they step out of the house.</p>
<p>5. Uses deodorant sprays inside the house, and sprays deodorant perfumes on self and at times avoid bathing.</p>
<p>6. Wears &#8216;cargo&#8217; pants and uses the <span class="GINGER_SOFATWARE_correct">pockets</span> as temporary trash carriers and dumps the contents into real dustbins, if one is found at all. Toilet <span class="GINGER_SOFATWARE_correct">tissues</span> also find their place in the pant pockets and in ladies&#8217; handbags.</p>
<p>7. Complains about power-cuts and load shedding and praises the power service in the USA. In fact, complains about everything in India as if experiencing the inconveniences for the first time. If the power gets cut, instead of telephoning the Electricity Board, looks at other houses to verify that they too are experiencing the same inconvenience.</p>
<p>8. Wears <span class="GINGER_SOFATWARE_correct">seatbelt</span> in cars and advises others to do so. Scorns the Indian roads. Automobiles are Audi, Mercedes, Lamborghini and not Maruti, Tata or Bajaj.</p>
<p>9. Says: &#8220;Excuse me&#8221; after sneezing.</p>
<p>10. Thanks waiters in restaurants.</p>
<p>11. Carries mineral water everywhere, and always speaks of &#8216;health&#8217;. Scrutinizes labels on milk products for the percentage of fat content. Prefers &#8220;Diet Coke&#8221; to normal Coke.13. Abhors eating or drinking tea in wayside hotels. Scorns Dhaba food while praising KFC or McDonald&#8217;s. Avoids eating hot chili stuff.</p>
<p>12. Tries to use a credit card or debit card <span class="GINGER_SOFATWARE_correct">in</span> roadside hotels.</p>
<p>13. Distances are miles (not kilometers), weights are in pounds (not kilograms), and counts in <span class="GINGER_SOFATWARE_correct">millions</span> (not in <span class="GINGER_SOFATWARE_noSuggestion GINGER_SOFATWARE_correct">lakhs</span>). Writes date as MM/DD/YYYY instead of DD/MM/YYYY.</p>
<p><span style="font-style:inherit;line-height:1.625;">14. Tries to figure all prices in dollars. They forget that </span><span style="font-style:inherit;line-height:1.625;">when they were in the USA</span><span style="font-style:inherit;line-height:1.625;"> they mentally converted </span><span style="font-style:inherit;line-height:1.625;">the price of each item they came across from </span><span style="font-style:inherit;line-height:1.625;">dollars to rupees by multiplying roughly by 50.</span></p>
<p>15. Pronounces &#8220;schedule&#8221; as &#8220;<span class="GINGER_SOFATWARE_correct">skejule</span>&#8220;, &#8220;module&#8221; as &#8220;Mojule&#8221;, and &#8220;Steak&#8221; as &#8220;Stake&#8221;.</p>
<p>16. Says:</p>
<p style="padding-left:60px;">&#8220;Hey&#8221; instead of &#8220;Hi&#8221;</p>
<p style="padding-left:60px;">&#8220;Yogurt&#8221; instead of &#8220;Curd&#8221;</p>
<p style="padding-left:60px;">&#8220;Cab&#8221; instead of &#8220;Taxi&#8221;</p>
<p style="padding-left:60px;">&#8220;Candy&#8221; instead of &#8220;Chocolate&#8221;</p>
<p style="padding-left:60px;">&#8220;Cookie&#8221; instead of &#8220;Biscuit&#8221;</p>
<p style="padding-left:60px;">&#8220;Free Way&#8221; instead of &#8220;Highway&#8221;</p>
<p style="padding-left:60px;">&#8220;Got To Go&#8221; instead of &#8220;Have To Go&#8221;</p>
<p style="padding-left:60px;">&#8220;Oh&#8221; instead of &#8220;Zero&#8221;. For 707, says &#8220;seven oh seven&#8221; instead of &#8220;seven zero seven&#8221;.</p>
<p style="padding-left:60px;">&#8220;X, Y, Zee&#8221; instead of &#8220;X, Y, Zed&#8221;</p>
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<p>I came across the above image in Facebook that might come in handy for those who aspire to travel to or work in the USA.</p>
<p><span style="font-style:inherit;line-height:1.625;">Keep smiling &#8230;</span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[. . . By Shahina KK . Maariyamma is likely to be killed by her children because they cannot afford her. They &#8230;<p><a href="http://tvaraj.com/2013/05/15/mother-shall-i-put-you-to-sleep/">Continue reading &#187;</a></p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=tvaraj.com&#038;blog=32342279&#038;post=15101&#038;subd=tvaraj&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p><em>Maariyamma is likely to be killed by her children because they cannot afford her. They will give her a loving oil bath. Several glasses of coconut water. A mouthful of mud. Perhaps a poison injection. She is just one of many old parents in Tamil Nadu dying in this way. But no one blinks at these ritual murders.</em></p>
<p><strong>IN TAMIL</strong>, it is known as <em>thalaikoothal</em>. A leisurely oil bath. An exercise in love and health when given to newborn children, a ceremonial beginning to festivals, and the universal answer to pitiless summers. In Tamil Nadu’s small industry hub of Virudhunagar, however, it is the beginning of slow murder. The marker of the devastating poverty that makes a son kill his own aging mother.</p>
<div id="attachment_15103" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 330px"><img class="size-full wp-image-15103 " alt="Maariyamma" src="http://tvaraj.files.wordpress.com/2013/05/maariyamma.jpg?w=529"   /><p class="wp-caption-text">Maariyamma &#8211; After her friend’s son turned mercy killer, Maariyamma left her village. (Photo: G. Karthick)</p></div>
<p>Young family members of this district in southern Tamil Nadu have been pushing their infirm, elderly dependents to death because they cannot afford to take care of them. When 65-year-old Maariyamma suspected this might happen to her too, she moved out of her son’s house two years ago. “I’m not well enough to live on my own, but it is better than being killed by them,” she says. Amazingly, there is no bitterness in her voice. Or anger. “They’re struggling hard to take care of their own children,” says Maariyamma, of her sons. She places no blame. Her two sons and two daughters are farm labourers who travel to different villages every sowing and harvesting season. Seeing her children at pains to run their house, and feed and educate her grandchildren, Maariyamma knew she was a burden. She knew how it would end if she didn’t leave.</p>
<p>Maariyamma had seen it happen to other men and women of her age. Her neighbour, Parvathy, had been paralysed at the age of 76. “She had only one son,” says Maariyamma. “And he was working in Chennai, surviving on some menial job there. How could he afford to look after his bedridden mother?” One day, Maariyamma says, Parvathy’s son came, “did it” and went back to Chennai. “What else could he do?” she asks. Again, in place of anger or fear, there is helpless resignation. And a strange empathy for the person who might elaborately plan her murder.</p>
<p><em>Thalaikoothal</em> works thus: an extensive oil bath is given to an elderly person before the crack of dawn. The rest of the day, he or she is given several glasses of cold tender coconut water. Ironically, this is everything a mother would’ve told her child not do while taking an oil bath. “Tender coconut water taken in excess causes renal failure,” says Dr Ashok Kumar, a practicing physician in Madurai. By evening, the body temperature falls sharply. In a day or two, the old man or woman dies of high fever. This method is fail-proof “because the elderly often do not have the immunity to survive the sudden fever,” says Dr Kumar.</p>
<p><strong>OVER THE</strong> years, other methods have evolved too. The most painful one is when mud dissolved in water is forced down; it causes indigestion and an undignified death. Velayudham of Help age India says the families often take the mud from their own land, if they have any. “It is believed that this makes their souls happy,” he says.</p>
<p>Dorairaj, a farmer in Satur, confesses that Muniammal, a distant relative, had been killed four months earlier. She was 78, and too weak to fend for herself. She was given an oil bath, but somehow survived. After a few days, she was given the ‘milk treatment’. “When the milk is being poured, the nose is held tight,” says Dorairaj. This ‘milk treatment’ is often preceded by starvation. The household stops serving the parent solid food. “When milk is poured uninterruptedly into the mouth, it goes into the respiratory track. A starving person cannot withstand even a moment’s suffocation,” says 60-year-old Paul Raj, coordinator of a district elders’ welfare association.</p>
<p>Though everyone seems to be in the know, <em>thalaikoothal</em> officially remained unexposed until the death of 60-year-old Selvaraj, of Ramasamipuram village in Virudhunagar on 18 June this year. Selvaraj, who was bed-ridden due to an accident, died suddenly. Asokan, Selvaraj’s nephew in Virudhunagar, raised the alarm on his uncle’s death. He registered an FIR, and subsequently a woman named Zeenath was arrested for administering a poisonous injection. Prabhakar, the Virudhunagar Commissioner of Police, admits that it is hard to find any evidence. “The body was cremated and there is no scope for a re-examination of the corpse,” he says.</p>
<p>Zeenath has been released on bail and refused to talk to TEHELKA when we met her in her village, Ramasamipuram. Some villagers claimed that Zeenath was a ‘professional mercy killer’.</p>
<p style="padding-left:300px;"><strong style="font-style:inherit;line-height:1.625;">‘It’s difficult to view it simply in a legal or criminal framework,’ says district collector VK Shanmugham</strong></p>
<p><span style="font-style:inherit;line-height:1.625;">A few days after Selvaraj’s death came to light, a newspaper published a report exposing more mysterious deaths in the district. When the district administration of Virudhunagar learnt how widespread the mercy killing was, it ordered an investigation. “It was shocking for all of us,” says V K Shanmugham, district collector in Virudhunagar. He soon realised that conventional state responses like arrests, warnings and interrogations would not even scratch the surface.</span></p>
<p><em>Thalaikoothal</em> lay in the indefinable space between crime and desperate acts of poverty. It was social custom, a collective family decision, a ritual goodbye to a loved one who had lived a full life. Sometimes, it was the victim’s own idea. Shanmugham found that many called it a path to “eternal peace”, an escape from the violence of poverty. “It is difficult to view this simply in a legal or criminal framework,” he adds.</p>
<p>If <em>thalaikoothal</em> is seen as a crime, an entire village is accomplice. Community members and relatives not only support the practice, several even arrive a day before the auspicious oil bath to meet the aged parent one last time. Everybody knows the man or woman is going to die.</p>
<p>“Nobody questions or reports it to the police. They don’t even see it as a crime. It is a kind of accepted practice,” says Dr Lakshmi, a physician in Karyappetti village. Over 75, Dr Lakshmi recollects that she has been hearing of this practice of killing the elderly for 34 years.</p>
<div id="attachment_15106" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 330px"><img class=" wp-image-15106" alt="Community pardon" src="http://tvaraj.files.wordpress.com/2013/05/community-pardon.jpg?w=320&#038;h=219" width="320" height="219" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Community pardon: In many villages, <em>thalaikoothal</em> is not a crime, but a social custom.</p></div>
<p>The practice is not confined to a particular caste or community. “The poor do it, whatever their caste,” says Chandra Devi, the district Welfare Officer. Most residents are seasonal farm labourers, livestock shepherds or migrant workers in small factories in the nearby industrial hub Sivakasi. Their mobile lives make it virtually impossible for them to stay home to care for their parents.</p>
<p>Killing is indeed a brutal solution to financial burdens, but community members claim there is no alternative. “It does not mean that they do not love their parents,” says Chellathorai, the president of Paneerpetty village Panchayat.</p>
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<p>Paul Raj, of the district elders welfare association, recently requested the district collector for government protection for the elderly. “The aged in these villages are highly vulnerable. We demand government’s immediate action.” Raj, however, realises that while police forces can protect an aged woman from her children, what they really need is protection from penury. “If the seniors had some income, they would not be considered so burdensome,” says Raj. “For example, if they got more pension, or at least got it regularly, it might give some respite.”</p>
<p><span style="font-style:inherit;line-height:1.625;">Kasi, a daily wager, moved out of his son’s house after his wife died. He’s not sure if he’s 65 or 70, but his shock of white hair, equally white handlebar moustache, and soil-black wrinkled skin are testament to his long and arduous life. Kasi had decided to leave when he watched his children grow tired of tending to their father’s every need. “I’m very fond of them, and can’t imagine they will try to kill me,” he says. “But anyway, I didn’t want to push them to any extreme step.” Whether he too would have been invited for that chilling oil bath some years down, Kasi doesn’t know. And he didn’t stick around to find out.</span></p>
<p><strong>ACROSS VIRUDHUNAGAR</strong>, even as elderly men and women leave their homes, they make excuses for their children. “My son was struggling with his own life,” says Kasi. They put up a brave front. “I’m surviving fine with the ration rice at 2 per kilo,” says a reed-thin Maariyamma. They starve, and sigh, but do not complain. Thalaikoothal is to them not cowardly murder, but a brave farewell. Kasi and Maariyamma do not see how extreme it is, how dramatic. For them, it is a sort of practical love that is simply about survival.</p>
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<p>Re-posted from <strong><a href="http://archive.tehelka.com/" target="_blank">Tehelka Magazine</a></strong>, Vol 7, Issue 46, Dated November 20, 2010</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[. . . . By Kancha Ilaiah . Rape has, of late, become an acute disease in the Indian society. &#8230;<p><a href="http://tvaraj.com/2013/05/14/the-roots-of-rape-in-india/">Continue reading &#187;</a></p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=tvaraj.com&#038;blog=32342279&#038;post=15078&#038;subd=tvaraj&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>By <strong>Kancha Ilaiah</strong></p>
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<p>Rape has, of late, become an acute disease in the Indian society. Prima facie, this is a problem arising out of a mental disorder, but there is also a larger cultural context that, to an extent, explains how the Indian male became so brutal.</p>
<p>Our cultural upbringing conditions male minds to behave in a cruel fashion with women. Family upbringing, societal conditioning, religious sagas and political animus, all construct our men and women into being what they are — men as aggressive and women as submissive. Which is why men here, in India, are different from men in other countries.</p>
<p>Their cultural milieu is different. Their spiritual systems train them differently. It’s not that only Indian men rape and kill children aged three or five. This happens in other countries too, but they are the rarest of rare cases. Daily reports of infants being raped across the length and breadth of a country is a phenomenon unique to India, a society that’s otherwise highly conservative. Clearly, the institutional upbringing, including that in <span class="GINGER_SOFATWARE_correct">family</span>, needs to undergo change.</p>
<p>Every time a gruesome rape gets reported, we all are ashamed and angry. That’s one thing; but working out ways and means to eradicate such evil is another thing. We cannot leave it entirely to the police or the judiciary to tackle such heinous acts. For, rape is also a cultural problem; and it is a more serious problem because of the extermination of the victim. We need to treat the malaise from its very roots.</p>
<p>We are a society that derives its sense of good and bad from our mythologies and spiritual ethics. Our gods and goddesses are not only worshipped but also adored. And it is our lifelong <span class="GINGER_SOFATWARE_correct">endeavour</span> to emulate them. This is the cultural environment that shapes the lives of most people in India. So it’s natural that what gods do influences <span class="GINGER_SOFATWARE_correct">us</span> much more than the moral lesson at the end. Now consider this: we have gods who, for instance, have cut the nose and ear lobes of a woman who approached them professing her love (Lakshman is depicted as having done this to Shurpanakha), and yet we adore him and see him as a symbol of loyalty, sacrifice and righteous indignation.</p>
<p>Lord Krishna stole the clothes of women while they were bathing in the Yamuna river. He did so to tease them and for the pleasure of watching the beauty of their naked bodies. We hang miniature paintings of the same act in our homes proudly. The young men who grow up seeing this, or listening to the story told in an amused tone are bound to not find such an act abhorrent.</p>
<p>We also have a god, Shiva, who insisted on entering the bathing arena of Goddess Parvati and did so by eliminating a child who was keeping guard at the open door. Lord Ganesha is said to have emerged out of such a union. Is this right or wrong? Our mythology tells us that what a husband does is right, that his will is greater than the woman’s. If a mythological hero is praised for his acts of killing, drinking and fornicating with multiple women (like Indra did with Rambha, Urvashi, Menaka, Tilottama and so on), it is glorification of such behaviour.</p>
<p>When such stories are a part of the mythological texts, they should, at least, be critically evaluated and given a more contemporary, political reading which is rooted in the concept of equality. Instead, the tendency is to not question what our gods did, but simply admire such acts.</p>
<p>Barring a few exceptions, there is no appreciation, per se, of a healthy man-woman relationship which is rooted in the concept of equality. Indian women are shown as lathangi (a person of delicate body), never strong enough to resist her dehumanisation. Though Durga and Kali are shown as strong, in real life such militancy is not seen as feminine.</p>
<p>Now let us turn to the political spectrum. We have had many great men — Mahatma Gandhi, Jawaharlal Nehru, Sarvepalli Radhakrishnan etc — who got married at a young age with girls of much younger age, went abroad for higher studies, leaving their wives at home totally illiterate or semi-literate. We do not know how these men, or Gokhale and Tilak, treated their wives.</p>
<p>But we know that they were all devotees of the deities mentioned above. The only man who treated his wife as a friend and educated her right from the first day of his marriage, Mahatma Jyotirao Phule, is not taught as an example to be emulated in our texts.  Somehow, in our patriarchal cultural milieu, unkind and inhuman treatment of women has never been a matter of concern. It’s considered sacrilegious, for example, to question Lord Ram for leaving his dutiful wife on the random outburst of a dhobi.</p>
<p>And Sita’s action, in turn, to not question, but to commit suicide, is considered the epitome of all that is pious. Even Gautam Buddha left his young wife, with an infant child. Questioning such acts has never been part of our public discourse.</p>
<p>Or, look at our cinemas. Ever since the industry came into being, silent or talkie, it has used woman’s body as a money-making object. The song and dance sequence that it has adopted as an art form falls into a common pattern — every hero is licensed to misuse the body of the heroine. The romance in our film industry is not romance; it is vulgarity bordering on the criminal.</p>
<p><span style="font-style:inherit;line-height:1.625;">So is it a surprise that men of this country see it as their right to violate women in all spheres of life?</span></p>
<p><em>The writer is director, Centre for the Study of Social Exclusion and Inclusive Policy, Maulana Azad National Urdu University, Hyderabad</em></p>
<p>Re-posted from <a href="http://www.deccanchronicle.com/" target="_blank">DECCAN Chronicle</a> (May 10, 2013)</p>
<p><b>Kancha Ilaiah</b> (5 October 1952) is an Indian <a title="Activist" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Activist">activist</a> and <a title="Writer" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Writer">writer</a>. His books include <i>Why I am not a Hindu</i>, <i>God As Political Philosopher: Budha&#8217;s challenge to Brahminism</i>, <i>A Hollow Shell</i>, <i>The State and Repressive Culture</i>, <i>Manatatwam</i> (in Telugu), and <i>Buffalo Nationalism: A Critique of Spiritual Fascism</i>.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[. . . . By Subhash Gatade . The system of untouchability has been a goldmine for the Hindus. This system &#8230;<p><a href="http://tvaraj.com/2013/05/13/on-modis-social-engineering/">Continue reading &#187;</a></p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=tvaraj.com&#038;blog=32342279&#038;post=15052&#038;subd=tvaraj&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p><em>The system of untouchability has been a goldmine for the Hindus. This system affords 60 millions of untouchables to do the dirty work of scavenging and sweeping to the 240 million Hindus who are debarred by their religion to do such dirty work. But the work must be done for the Hindus and who else than the untouchables? </em><strong>- Dr. B. R. Ambedkar</strong></p>
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<p align="left">Whether Shit Collection or cleaning of gutters &#8211; which has condemned lakhs of people to a life of indignity since ages &#8211; could be considered a &#8216;Spiritual Experience.&#8217; Definitely not. Everybody would yell. Well, Mr Narendra Modi, chief minister of Gujarat, has a different take on this, which he mentions in the book &#8216;Karmayog&#8217; (Publication year 2007).</p>
<p align="left">The said book is basically a collection of his speeches to high profile IAS officials. Herein he discusses the age old caste-based vocation of the Valmikis as &#8220;experience in spirituality&#8217;. He writes: &#8220;I do not believe that they have been doing this job just to sustain their livelihood. Had this been so, they would not have continued with this type of job generation after generation….At some point of time, somebody must have got the enlightenment that it is their (Valmikis&#8217;) duty to work for the happiness of the entire society and the Gods; that they have to do this job bestowed upon them by Gods; and that this job of cleaning up should continue as an internal spiritual activity for centuries. This should have continued generation after generation. It is impossible believe that their ancestors did not have the choice of adopting any other work or business.&#8221;</p>
<p align="left">Looking at the fact that a section of the dalits themselves -especially its upwardly mobile and more articulate section &#8211; has joined with the Hindutva bandwagon, it was expected that there were no angry reaction to his utterances within the state. A section of the Ambedkarite Dalits and many human rights activists did protest but their voices got drowned in the cacophony of voices of Modi supporters. It is a different matter that when Modi&#8217;s remark got published in the Times of India in mid-November 2007, which was later translated in few Tamil newspapers, it resulted in a massive reaction of Dalits in Tamilnadu. Not only they staged protests for calling their menial job &#8220;spiritual experience&#8221; but Modi&#8217;s effigies were burnt in different parts of the state. Sensing trouble Modi immediately withdrew 5,000 copies of the book, but still sticked to his opinion. Two years later, addressing 9,000-odd <em>safai karmacharis </em>, (cleanliness workers) he likened the safai karmacharis&#8217; job of cleaning up others dirt&#8217; to that of a temple priest. He told them, “A priest cleans a temple every day before prayers, you also clean the city like a temple. You and the temple priest work alike.”</p>
<p align="left">One was reminded of these ideas of Mr Modi, when news came in that the budget for the coming year passed by the Gujarat state assembly, has allocated a sum of Rs 22.5 lakhs for giving training in <em>Karmkand </em>(rituals) to Safai Kamdars themselves. The idea is to train them in scriptures so that they can perform <em>pujas </em>(organise worships). It is clear that the &#8216;new scheme&#8217; as it was presented before the people was just a revised version of its earlier scheme wherein members of the scheduled communities were given training to become &#8216;Gurubrahmins&#8217; so that they could also perform <em>pujas </em>. Insiders can also share with you that the said scheme has miserably failed and people who were trained to perform <em>pujas </em>  are still searching for jobs.</p>
<p align="left">It could be asked if Modi values safai karmacharis so highly, why is it that he has begun outsourcing all the menial jobs for a very low pay, between Rs 3,000 and Rs 3,500 per month per worker. Why they are not being employed on a permanent basis? A leading Dalit poet raised an altogether different question “Why didn&#8217;t it occur to Modi that the spirituality involved in doing menial jobs hasn&#8217;t ever been experienced by the upper castes?”</p>
<p align="left">It is worth emphasising that the day when Gujarat government declared its intention to train safai kamdars in <em>Karmkand </em>, supposedly to integrate them closely in the mainstream of Hindu society, also happened to be the period when the anti-dalit stance of the people in power was very much evident in two clear examples. The manner in which state officials tried to cover up social boycott of dalits in a village and the way they tried to save guilty police officials involved in dalit killings had already reached headlines.</p>
<p align="left">Not very many people would have heard about village Galsana, Dhanduka tehsil, Ahmedabad district, which is around 100 kms from the city. The dalits in the village who are about 500 in numbers, are not allowed entry into any of the five temples in the village. The younger generation of dalits protested this ban which resulted in their social boycott. When the news last came in, the boycott was already few months old. Incidentally when officers from the social justice department visited the village, they even did not acknowledge that dalits are facing social boycott, forget asking the police to take action against the guilty.</p>
<p align="left">The other news concerned the arrest of guilty police officials involved in the gruesome killings of Dalits at Thangarh.(Sep 2012) After four months cop Jadeja and other two accused police officials in Thangadh dalit massacre case were arrested on February 23 2013. It is reported that the killings at Thangarh were fallout of a minor clash between Dalits and Bharwads over auctioning of stalls at an annual fair organised by the Thangarh municipality. When the dalits filed a complaint against the Bharwads at the police station, the police refused to take any action ; the anger of the dalits spilled over onto the streets next day which saw participation of dalits in large numbers and police&#8217;s resorting to strong arm tactics resulting in the killings. Despite knowing the fact that the infamous police officer, had on earlier occasion also fired upon the dalits, without any provocation, the administration tried every trick in the kitty to save him and his colleagues. It was only because of judicial intervention that they were ordered to be arrested.</p>
<p align="left">Galsana and Thangarh can be said to be tip of the iceberg as far as dalit deprivation and denial of justice is concerned. In fact much has been written about the way the Scheduled Castes and Scheduled Tribes (Atrocities prevention) act, 1989 is implemented in the state. One finds that the rate of of conviction of cases under the Prevention of Atrocity Act against SC/ST in Gujarat is mere 2.5 per cent while rate of acquittal is 97.5 per cent. A 23 page confidential report submitted by the state Social Justice Department to the State Chief Secretary and legal departments provides glaring examples of &#8216;mishandling of cases registered under Prevention of Atrocities Act against SC/ST. (Express, Sep 15, 2006).</p>
<p align="left">The report provides details of how cases are not investigated properly by the police and the hostile role played by public prosecutors during time of trials.</p>
<p style="padding-left:30px;" align="left">- Act clearly stipulates that offences which are registered under this act cannot be investigated by an officer below the rank of DySP but more than 4,000 such cases have been investigated by Police Inspector or Police Sub Inspector.</p>
<p style="padding-left:30px;" align="left">- Acquittal of the perpetrator because victim not identified as member of SC or ST community. Reason, not attaching caste certificate of the victim with the case papers</p>
<p style="padding-left:30px;" align="left">- Public prosecutors false claims before the courts that act has been modified by the state government altough it is known that it is a central act</p>
<p style="padding-left:30px;" align="left">- Granting of anticipatory bails although there is no such provision in the act. Interestingly the Parliamentary Committee on SC and ST affairs had also expressed concern over such anticipatory bails granted &#8216;in atrocity cases in the state of Gujarat&#8217;.</p>
<p align="left">In this backdrop it is worth underlining what little did Mr Modi knew about this important law and its implications. One could rather say that in Gujarat chief minister is directly responsible for the non-implementation of the Atrocity Act. As Raju Solanki, famous poet and dalit rights activists writes in his blog :</p>
<p style="padding-left:30px;"><em>It was on 16 April, 2004, that a question was asked to chief minister Modi in Gujarat legislative assembly: “Honorable chief minister [Home] may oblige us to tell, is it true that the DSP is responsible for the appointment of an officer not below the rank of DySP as investigating officer in the offenses under atrocities act? The answer of our chief minister was shocking. He said: “No, but there is a provision under rule 7 (1) of SC/ST act, 1995 to appoint officers not above the rank of DySP to inquire into all cases booked under atrocities act. It is not the responsibility of DSP.”</em></p>
<p><span style="font-style:inherit;line-height:1.625;">In the end, one would like to put on record the way the presence of </span>dalits in record is obliterated without any fuss. During panchayat elections, Nathu Vadla, a small village of Gujarat with hardly 1000 population had suddenly reached headlines. The panchayat election in this village was to be conducted on the basis of 2001 data. The village has at least 100 Scheduled Castes people and one seat was to be reserved as per law, but the census data has not been modified and in 2001 the population of SC was nil in the village, the election in 2013 was to be conducted on the basis of 2001 census. Here also courts had to intervene to stay elections in the village. Gujarat High Court stayed elections in the village saying that it would be ‘mockery of democracy&#8217;.</p>
<p align="left"><strong>Subhash Gatade </strong>is a Writer and social activist based in New delhi. Subhash also edits a Hindi Journal Sandhan. His most recent book is &#8220;Godse’s Children: Hindutva Terror in India&#8221; Email. : <a href="subhash.gatade@gmail.com" target="_blank"><strong>subhash.gatade@gmail.com</strong></a></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[.  . By T.V. Antony Raj . The tradition of honoring Motherhood has its roots in antiquity. According to the primeval Egyptian &#8230;<p><a href="http://tvaraj.com/2013/05/12/a-short-history-of-mothers-day/">Continue reading &#187;</a></p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=tvaraj.com&#038;blog=32342279&#038;post=14905&#038;subd=tvaraj&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://tvaraj.wordpress.com/" target="_blank"><img alt="Myself" src="http://tvaraj.files.wordpress.com/2012/02/myself.jpg?w=94&#038;h=189&#038;h=120" width="94" height="120" /> <span style="color:#ffffff;">. </span>By <strong><strong>T.V. Antony Raj</strong></strong></a></p>
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<p>The tradition of honoring Motherhood has its roots in antiquity.</p>
<div class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 145px"><a href="http://commons.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Standing_Osiris_edit1.svg" target="_blank"><img class="zemanta-img-inserted zemanta-img-configured" title="Osiris was the lord of the dead in the ancient..." alt="Osiris was the lord of the dead in the ancient..." src="http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/c/cc/Standing_Osiris_edit1.svg/300px-Standing_Osiris_edit1.svg.png" width="135" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Osiris</p></div>
<p>According to the primeval Egyptian mythology, divine Osiris, the eldest son of the Earth god Geb, and the sky goddess Nut, was the god of fertility, the afterlife, the underworld and the dead. Osiris was a wise king who brought civilization. His siblings were Horus the Elder, Seth, Isis, and Nephthys. His younger brother Seth was the god of the desert, storms, darkness, and chaos. He was hostile and outright evil. Though they were brothers their diametric personalities made them adversaries.</p>
<p>Osiris was happily married to his sister, Isis while Seth married his other sister Nephthys.</p>
<p>Though Osiris and Seth were brothers, their diametric personalities made them adversaries.</p>
<p>Seth, the envious brother slew Osiris, dismembered him into 13 pieces and scattered the remains all over Egypt. He usurped the throne of his dead brother.</p>
<div id="attachment_15039" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 145px"><img class=" wp-image-15039" alt="Isis" src="http://tvaraj.files.wordpress.com/2013/05/isis.gif?w=135&#038;h=251" width="135" height="251" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Isis</p></div>
<p>Isis collected the dismembered body of her brother-husband Osiris, reassembled the pieces. As the archetypal mummy, Osiris reigned over the after-world as a king among deserving spirits of the dead.</p>
<p>Isis used the embalmed corpse of Osiris to impregnate herself to conceive posthumously. She gave birth to Horus. She then hid her baby son amidst reeds lest Seth slaughtered him too . Horus grew up as a natural enemy of Seth, defeated him and became the first ruler of a unified Egypt. Isis, thus earned her stature as the &#8220;<em>Mother of the Pharaohs.</em>&#8220;</p>
<p>In ancient Egypt and Ethiopia, Isis was one of the four most widely venerated deities. The ancient Egyptians held an annual festival to honor the goddess Isis as the ideal mother and wife.</p>
<p>The worship of Isis spread throughout the Greco-Roman world as the patroness of nature and magic; friend of slaves, sinners, artisans, and the poor. The rich aristocrats, rulers and maidens prayed to the goddess who was also known as the goddess of children, and protector of the dead.</p>
<p>Despite being a foreign deity, the Romans venerated Isis and reserved a place for her in their temples. The Romans commemorated an important battle with a festival in her name that lasted for three days with female dancers, musicians and singers marking the beginning of winter.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><img class="aligncenter  wp-image-14908" alt="Black Madonna" src="http://tvaraj.files.wordpress.com/2013/05/black-madonna.png?w=476&#038;h=298" width="476" height="298" /></p>
<p>Societies around the world celebrated symbols of motherhood as mythological goddesses and not real human mothers except the Christian Church. The Mother and Son imagery of Isis and Horus, where Isis cradles and suckles her son, and that of the Virgin Mary and Infant Jesus is astonishingly similar.</p>
<p><strong><span style="font-style:inherit;line-height:1.625;">Celebrations in England and Europe</span></strong></p>
<p>By the 16th century, due to the spread of Christianity, people in England and Europe moved away from the ancient roman religious and cultural traditions. <em>Hilaria</em>, the ancient Roman religious festival celebrated on the vernal equinox to honor Cybele gave way to <em>Laetare</em> Sunday &#8211; the fourth Sunday of Lent in the Christian liturgical calendar (the 40 days of fasting preceding Easter Sunday), once known as &#8220;the Sunday of the Five Loaves.&#8221; Christians in England used this Sunday, to honor the Mother of Christ and decorated the church in which they were baptized, which they knew as their &#8220;Mother Church&#8221; with flowers and offerings.</p>
<p>In the 17th century, a clerical decree in England referred to the <em>Laetare</em> Sunday as &#8220;Mothering Day.&#8221; The decree broadened the celebration, from one focused on the &#8220;Mother of Christ&#8221; and the &#8220;Mother Church,&#8221; to include real mothers. It became a compassionate holiday toward the working classes of England. During this Lenten Sunday, the masters allowed their servants and trade workers to travel back to their towns of origin to visit their families. Mothering Day also provided a reprieve from the fasting and penance of Lent. Across England family members, living far away came home to visit and enjoy a family feast. The children presented cakes and flowers to their mothers.</p>
<p><strong>Celebrations in America</strong></p>
<p>The first English settlers, the Pilgrims, who came to America discontinued the traditional Mothering Day. They fled from England to practice a more conservative Christianity without being persecuted. In the new land, they lived under harsh conditions and worked long hours to survive. Due to their devotion to God, they ignored secular holidays. For them, even holidays such as Christmas and Easter were somber occasions that took place in a Church stripped of all extraneous ornamentation.</p>
<p><strong>Mother&#8217;s Day Proclamation of 1870</strong></p>
<p>In 1870, Julia Ward Howe conceptualized the first North American Mother’s Day with her &#8220;Mother’s Day Proclamation.&#8221;</p>
<div id="attachment_14994" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 220px"><img class=" wp-image-14994  " alt="Julia Ward Howe" src="http://tvaraj.files.wordpress.com/2013/05/julia-ward-howe.jpg?w=210&#038;h=210" width="210" height="210" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Julia Ward Howe</p></div>
<p style="text-align:left;">Julia Ward (May 27, 1819 — October 17, 1910) born in New York City was a prominent American abolitionist, social activist, and poet. She wrote &#8220;<em>The Battle Hymn of the Republic</em>&#8221; after she and her husband, Samuel Gridley Howe, visited Washington, D. C., and met President Abraham Lincoln at the White House in November 1861.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><img class=" wp-image-15073 aligncenter" alt="American Civil War soldiers" src="http://tvaraj.files.wordpress.com/2013/05/american-civil-war-soldiers1.jpg?w=227&#038;h=207" width="227" height="207" /></p>
<p>Twelve years later, distraught by the death and carnage of the Civil War, she called on mothers to protest what she saw as &#8220;the futility of their sons killing the sons of other mothers.&#8221; She wrote the following &#8220;Mother’s Day Proclamation&#8221; and called for an international Mother&#8217;s Day to celebrate peace and motherhood:</p>
<p style="padding-left:30px;"><em>Arise, then, women of this day!</em></p>
<p style="padding-left:30px;"><em>Arise, all women who have hearts, Whether our baptism be of water or of tears!</em></p>
<p style="padding-left:30px;"><em>Say firmly: &#8220;We will not have great questions decided by irrelevant agencies, Our husbands will not come to us, reeking with carnage, for caresses and applause. Our sons shall not be taken from us to unlearn All that we have been able to teach them of charity, mercy and patience. We, the women of one country, will be too tender of those of another country To allow our sons to be trained to injure theirs.&#8221;</em></p>
<p style="padding-left:30px;"><em>From the bosom of the devastated Earth a voice goes up with our own. It says: &#8220;Disarm! Disarm! The sword of murder is not the balance of justice.&#8221; Blood does not wipe out dishonor, nor violence indicate possession. As men have often forsaken the <span class="GINGER_SOFATWARE_correct">plough</span> and the anvil at the summons of war, Let women now leave all that may be left of home for a great and earnest day of counsel.</em></p>
<p style="padding-left:30px;"><em>Let them meet first, as women, to bewail and commemorate the dead. Let them solemnly take counsel with each other as to the means Whereby the great human family can live in peace, Each bearing after his own time the sacred impress, not of Caesar, But of God.</em></p>
<p style="padding-left:30px;"><em>In the name of womanhood and humanity, I earnestly ask That a general congress of women without limit of nationality May be appointed and held at someplace deemed most convenient And at the earliest period consistent with its objects, To promote the alliance of the different nationalities, The amicable settlement of international questions,</em></p>
<p style="padding-left:30px;"><em>The great and general interests of peace.</em></p>
<p>Julia Ward Howe even proposed converting July 4th into Mother’s Day, to dedicate the nation’s anniversary to peace, but June 2nd was designated for the celebration.</p>
<p>In 1873, women’s groups in 18 North American cities observed this new Mother’s Day. Initially, Julia funded many of these celebrations. Most of them died out when she stopped funding. Boston city, however, continued celebrating Julia Ward Howe’s Mother’s Day for the next ten years.</p>
<p>Despite the failure of her Mother&#8217;s Day, Julia Ward had nevertheless planted the seed that blossomed into the modern Mother&#8217;s Day.</p>
<p><strong>Mother&#8217;s Day in 1908</strong></p>
<p>In Webster, Taylor County, West Virginia, Ann Maria Reeves Jarvis (1832 &#8211; 1905), a social activist, led a women&#8217;s group that celebrated an adaptation of Julia Ward Howe&#8217;s holiday. She and her daughter Anna Marie Jarvis (1864 &#8211; 1948), are now recognized as the founders of the Mother&#8217;s Day holiday in the United States.</p>
<div id="attachment_15021" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 220px"><img class=" wp-image-15021 " alt="Ann-Maria-Reeves-Jarvis" src="http://tvaraj.files.wordpress.com/2013/05/ann-maria-reeves-jarvis.jpg?w=210&#038;h=210" width="210" height="210" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Ann Maria Reeves Jarvis</p></div>
<p>Ann Maria Reeves Jarvis was born in Culpeper, Virginia, on September 30, 1832 to Rev.  Josiah Washington Reeves and his wife, Nancy Kemper Reeves. The family moved to Barbour County in present-day West Virginia when the Rev. Reeves got transferred to a Methodist church in Philippi. In 1850, Ann married Granville E. Jarvis, the son of a Philippi Baptist minister. Two years later, Granville and Ann Jarvis moved to nearby Webster in Taylor County.</p>
<p>In the 1850s, Ann Maria Reeves Jarvis lost eight of her 11 children before they reached the age of seven due to poor health conditions in the area. With the help of her brother, Dr. James E. Reeves, she organized &#8220;Mother&#8217;s Friendship Clubs&#8221; in Webster, Grafton, Fetterman, Pruntytown, and Philippi, to improve health and sanitary conditions.</p>
<p>Thousands of women learned nursing and proper sanitation. Among other services, the clubs raised money for medicine, hired women to work for families in which the mothers suffered from tuberculosis, and inspected bottled milk and food. In 1860, local doctors helped to form Mother&#8217;s Friendship Club in other towns.</p>
<p>During the American Civil War, this noble woman urged the Mother&#8217;s Friendship Clubs to declare their neutrality and give relief to both Union and Confederate soldiers. The Club members nursed and cared for soldiers on both sides of the conflict.</p>
<p>Following the end of the war, she called on her club members to help mend the wounds of the war by reuniting the Union and Confederate families who fought on opposing sides by holding a &#8220;Mother&#8217;s Friendship Day.&#8221;</p>
<p>The Andrews Methodist Church built at Grafton, West Virginia and dedicated in 1873 was built under her husband&#8217;s leadership. Ann Maria Jarvis&#8217; life revolved around the church. She taught Sunday School at the church for more than 20 years. After her husband&#8217;s death in 1902, Ann moved to Philadelphia to live with her son Claude and daughters Anna and Lillian.</p>
<p>Ann Maria Reeves Jarvis died on May 9, 1905, in Bala Cynwyd, in southeastern Pennsylvania, bordering the western edge of Philadelphia.</p>
<div id="attachment_15022" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 220px"><img class=" wp-image-15022 " alt="Anna Marie Jarvis" src="http://tvaraj.files.wordpress.com/2013/05/anna-marie-jarvis.jpg?w=210&#038;h=210" width="210" height="210" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Anna Marie Jarvis</p></div>
<p>After Ann Maria Reeves Reeves&#8217; death, her daughter Anna Marie Jarvis, began a campaign to make &#8220;Mother&#8217;s Day&#8221; a recognized holiday in the United States to honor her mother&#8217;s wish that there be a day set aside to honor all mothers.</p>
<p>In 1908, Anna Marie petitioned the superintendent of the church where her mother had spent over 20 years teaching Sunday School to hold a memorial service to honor her mother who died three years before. Her request was accepted, and on May 10, 1908, the first official Mother&#8217;s Day celebration took place at Andrew&#8217;s Methodist Church in Grafton, West Virginia, and at a church in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. The event in Grafton drew a congregation of 407. Anna Jarvis had arranged for her mother&#8217;s favorite flower &#8211; white carnations. Two carnations were given to every mother in attendance.</p>
<p><span style="font-style:inherit;line-height:1.625;">At present times, people use white carnations to pay tribute to deceased mothers, and  pink or red carnations to honor living mothers.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-style:inherit;line-height:1.625;">In 1912 West Virginia was the first state to officially recognize Mother&#8217;s Day. </span></p>
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<p>On May 8, 1914, President Woodrow Wilson, a friend of Anna Marie Jarvis, signed a Congressional Resolution setting the second Sunday in May as a national holiday to celebrate Mother&#8217;s Day.</p>
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<p><span style="font-style:inherit;line-height:1.625;">Soon, other countries too adopted Mother&#8217;s Day <span class="GINGER_SOFATWARE_correct">of</span> Anna Marie Jarvis.</span></p>
<p>However, by the 1920s, Anna Marie Jarvis felt disappointed with the commercialization of Mother&#8217;s Day.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[.  . By T.V. Antony Raj . On Wednesday, April 24, 2013, the eight-storey Rana Plaza factory building in Savar 15 miles &#8230;<p><a href="http://tvaraj.com/2013/05/11/news-woman-found-alive-17-days-after-collapse-of-garment-factory-building/">Continue reading &#187;</a></p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=tvaraj.com&#038;blog=32342279&#038;post=15027&#038;subd=tvaraj&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>On Wednesday, April 24, 2013, the eight-storey Rana Plaza factory building in Savar 15 miles (24 Km) to the northwest of Dhaka city, the capital of Bangladesh, collapsed with hundreds of garment workers employed in factories that supplied high-street shops in the west, trapped inside.</p>
<p>Before the fatal accident, workers had repeatedly complained that the building was cracking open, but the management simply ignored their complaints. Sol Rana, the owner of the building was arrested.</p>
<p>On Friday morning (May 10), officials said about 2,500 people were injured in the accident and 2,437 people were rescued. A total of 1,021 bodies have been recovered<br />
from the debris and almost 650 identified so far and handed over to the families of the deceased. Many people are still missing.</p>
<p>A few hours after officials had announced the death toll as 1021, the recovery teams who had long given up any hope of finding any more survivors were shocked to hear at 15:15 local time (10:15 GMT), the voice of a woman calling for help from the debris of the second floor of the Rana Plaza. Immediately rescue workers were ordered to stop clearing the site.</p>
<p>The Bangladesh army has confirmed the news, naming the rescued woman as Reshma. The woman was taken to hospital and did not seem to have any significant injuries.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[. Many powerful photographs have been made in the aftermath of the devastating collapse of a garment factory on the &#8230;<p><a href="http://tvaraj.com/2013/05/11/a-final-embrace-the-most-haunting-photograph-from-bangladesh/">Continue reading &#187;</a></p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=tvaraj.com&#038;blog=32342279&#038;post=15003&#038;subd=tvaraj&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p><i>Many powerful photographs have been made in the aftermath of the devastating collapse of a garment factory on the outskirts of Dhaka, Bangladesh. But one photo, by Bangladeshi photographer Taslima Akhter, has emerged as the most heart wrenching, capturing an entire country’s grief in a single image.</i></p>
<p><i>Shahidul Alam, Bangladeshi photographer, writer and founder of Pathshala, the South Asian Institute of Photography, said of the photo: “This image, while deeply disturbing, is also hauntingly beautiful. An embrace in death, its tenderness rises above the rubble to touch us where we are most vulnerable. By making it personal, it refuses to let go. This is a photograph that will torment us in our dreams. Quietly it tells us. Never again.”</i></p>
<p><i>Akhter writes for LightBox about the photograph, which appears in this week’s TIME International alongside an essay by <a href="http://ideas.time.com/2013/05/02/what-bangladesh-can-learn-from-new-yorks-triangle-factory-fire/" target="_blank">David Von Drehle.</a></i></p>
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<p><span style="font-style:inherit;line-height:1.625;">I have been asked many questions about the photograph of the couple embracing in the aftermath of the collapse. I have tried desperately, but have yet to find any clues about them. I don’t know who they are or what their relationship is with each other.</span></p>
<p>I spent the entire day the building collapsed on the scene, watching as injured garment workers were being rescued from the rubble. I remember the frightened eyes of relatives — I was exhausted both mentally and physically. Around 2 a.m., I found a couple embracing each other in the rubble. The lower parts of their bodies were buried under the concrete. The blood from the eyes of the man ran like a tear. When I saw the couple, I couldn’t believe it. I felt like I knew them — they felt very close to me. I looked at who they were in their last moments as they stood together and tried to save each other — to save their beloved lives.</p>
<p>Every time I look back to this photo, I feel uncomfortable — it haunts me. It’s as if they are saying to me, <em>w</em><i>e are not a number — not only cheap labor and cheap lives. We are human beings like you. Our life is precious like yours, and our dreams are precious too.</i></p>
<p>They are witnesses in this cruel history of workers being killed. The death toll is now more than 750. What a harsh situation we are in, where human beings are treated only as numbers.</p>
<p>This photo is haunting me all the time. If the people responsible don’t receive the highest level of punishment, we will see this type of tragedy again. There will be no relief from these horrific feelings. I’ve felt a tremendous pressure and pain over the past two weeks surrounded by dead bodies. As a witness to this cruelty, I feel the urge to share this pain with everyone. That’s why I want this photo to be seen.</p>
<div id="attachment_15004" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 130px"><img class=" wp-image-15004" alt="Taslima Akhter " src="http://tvaraj.files.wordpress.com/2013/05/taslima-akhter.jpg?w=120&#038;h=120" width="120" height="120" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Taslima Akhter</p></div>
<p><em><a href="http://www.taslimaakhter.com/"><strong>Taslima Akhter</strong></a></em> is a Bangladeshi photographer and activist.</p>
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<p><span style="font-style:inherit;line-height:1.625;">Doctors are warning that a drug-resistant strain of gonorrhea could be more deadly than AIDS, and are urging members of US Congress to spend $54 million for the development of a drug that would fight it.</span></p>
<p><i>&#8220;This might be a lot worse than AIDS in the short run because the bacteria is more aggressive and will affect more people quickly,&#8221;</i> Alan Christianson, a doctor of naturopathic medicine, told CNBC.</p>
<p>The new strain of gonorrhea, H041, was first discovered in 2009 after a sex worker fell victim to the superbug in Japan. Medical officials reported that the medication-resilient ‘sex superbug’ was discovered in Hawaii in May 2011, and has since spread to California and Norway, the International Business Times reports.</p>
<p>Nearly 30 million people die from AIDS-related causes each year, and the H041 superbug could have similar consequences, according to Alan Christianson, a doctor of naturopathic medicine.</p>
<p><i>&#8220;Getting gonorrhea from this strain might put someone into septic shock and death in a matter of days,&#8221;</i> Christianson said. <i>&#8220;This is very dangerous.&#8221;</i></p>
<p>The gonorrhea strain has not yet claimed any lives, but the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) have asked Congress for $54 million to find an antibiotic to treat the strain.</p>
<p>In a Capitol Hill briefing last week, health officials said an education and public awareness campaign is crucial in minimizing the effective of HO41. William Smith, executive director of the National Coalition for STD Directors, said that if the ‘sex superbug’ spreads, it could quickly kill many people before a treatment is discovered. And that risk becomes increasingly more likely if Congress does not provide the funds to find a cure, he said.</p>
<p><i>&#8220;It&#8217;s an emergency situation. As time moves on, it&#8217;s getting more hazardous,&#8221;</i> he told members of Congress.</p>
<p><i>&#8220;We have to keep beating the drum on this,&#8221;</i> he added. <i>&#8220;The potential for disaster is great.&#8221;</i></p>
<p>In the United States, there are 20 million new STD infections each year, which results in about $16 billion in medical costs, the CDC reports. More than 800,000 of these cases gonorrhea infections, most of which occur in young people ages 15 to 24. Gonorrhea is sometimes difficult to detect, since it shows no symptoms in about half of all women. Those who fall ill to the deadly strain may not notice it until it’s too late.</p>
<p><i>“That’s what’s kind of scary about this,”</i> Smith said.</p>
<p>Although health officials have widely reported that cases of H041 were discovered in California, Hawaii and Norway, the CDC has disputed those claims and told CNBC on Monday that the infection has not been confirmed anywhere outside of Japan. The CDC did, however, make an announcement in 2011 that it was noticing greater gonorrhea bacterial resistance to certain types of antibiotics in Hawaii and California.</p>
<p>CDC officials said that the US and Norwegian cases were treated effectively with antibiotics not routinely recommended and that these cases were mistakenly identified as H041. But the agency continues to urge Congress for research funding, indicating that the risk of infection is high regardless of where the cases occurred.</p>
<p>Christianson is urging people to practice safe sex and get STD tests if they are in a new relationship, since a superbug infection could be around the corner.</p>
<p><i>&#8220;This is a disaster just waiting to happen,&#8221;</i> he told CNBC. <i>&#8220;It&#8217;s time to do something about it before it explodes. These superbugs, including the gonorrhea strain, are a health threat. We need to move now before it gets out of hand.&#8221;</i></p>
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