Friends on Facebook


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Myself . By T.V. Antony Raj
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“Facebook is a contemporary form of idleness and I have witnessed its being the conduit of anxiety and even enmity, forging ethereal friendships and trading real and imagined slights. Facebook’s interactions go from trivia to paranoia.” - Farrukh Dhondy in “Cabbages & Kings: Hacked off” (Published in Deccan Chronicle)

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Before the advent of the Internet, whenever I met someone for the first time, that person would ask me for my phone number, but now, people do not bother about telephone numbers, instead they ask me if I am on Facebook (FB).

Yes, I am on Facebook. I have two groups of friends: “My Family and Family Friends” and “My Computer Students, other Student Friends and colleagues”.

There are 180 members in the first group and 266 members in the second group.

I do not believe in having thousands of unknown people as friends, who comment with trivial phrases such as “He he he”, “Good morning”, etc., and are interested in knowing what cine and TV actors like to eat for breakfast or where and with whom they slept the previous night.

Though I choose my friends, I do err sometimes.

I am now 73-years-old and value what little bit of my time I have still to live. I really get annoyed when some come to chat online without any purpose and waste my time. Here is a brief chat I had with a so-called ‘friend’ a few days ago:

So called friend: sir neenga enga work panuringa (Sir where do you work)

Me: What prompted you to ask this question?

So called friend: sir your post status and other activities in fb. R u a media person (sic)

Me: Now, I am a retired person.

So called friend: ha ha ha fine sir

What do you think I gained from this conversation?

In the first instance, I okayed this young person, about 50 years younger than myself, to be my friend on FB for the main reason he had studied in 2008 in one of the schools I taught. Also, he had studied in the same college that I studied. Now, after this frivolous chat I have earmarked this person as a candidate to be deleted from my list of friends on Facebook.

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One thought on “Friends on Facebook

  1. I’m sitting here laughing because there’s so much truth to what you’re saying. I actually have a relative who will not talk to me unless I join Facebook because that’s what’s convenient for them. It seems like Facebook is often about hollow drama. It can be useful in that it reveals cheaters and liars and people you don’t want to hire, but it’s also a great forum for breeding cheating and lying in the first place. I appreciate its usefulness for nonprofit and professional causes, but there’s so much yuck there too.

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