Most Indians believe in arranged marriages. However, mine was a love marriage.
Whatever it is, love marriage or arranged marriage, symbolically one jumps into a well, or a slimy sump on the day of his marriage. Though what he jumps into being beyond his control, he may still boast it is.
I jumped into the well of marriage 47 years ago and except for a few moments I have no regrets.
You are still a bachelor. Why? Because you don’t have the courage we married guys have; and you think you are wiser than us. But I say, “you miss living in the fullness of life.”
So, get married now to a girl (of course) while you are still an eligible candidate for the post of husband, before it is too late for a woman to say “No!” just looking at you. Don’t miss your boat.
Have courage and jump into the well. Fathom first-hand how deep, pleasant or devastating married life can be apart from having sex. Die after living a full life.
- Marriage is a tool society uses to reproduce [Greg Laden's Blog] (scienceblogs.com)
- Unmarriage (onlyagame.typepad.com)
- Forget Your Marriage! (tamimyer.wordpress.com)